Showing posts with label Hope. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Hope. Show all posts

Sunday, December 8, 2019

Unconditional Love

  Unconditional love, what is it?  Do you give unconditional love?    Does your love have strings attached to it?  



  How do you know you have unconditional love?  The love you have, do you have to do anything for it?  Does anyone have to do anything for you for your love?




  What is the meaning of unconditional love?
Unconditional love is known as affection without any limitations, or love without conditions. This term is sometimes associated with other terms such as true altruism or complete love.

  If you have to do anything to receive love or if anyone has to do anything to receive love from you, that's not unconditional love.   Unconditional love just flows from you & excepts nothing in return.  It's a pure love.

  Pure love that flows from you to all people no matter the color, gender, age, behavior (doesn't mean you agree with the behavior, just that you still love the person),  or anything else that makes up people. 

  Unconditional love does not stop because we can not see eye to eye on the same subject matter.  It's ok to disagree & still get along,   "The root of unconditional love is understanding and forgiveness", (https://www.quora.com/What-are-some-examples-of-unconditional-love).   Another example is found in the Bible, Jesus.  Jesus gave unconditional love to every person in every town. 

  I pray that you have unconditional love & it flows through you freely!


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Sunday, November 17, 2019

Solace

   Solace is define as:
"comfort in sorrow, misfortune, or trouble; alleviation of distress or discomfort.
something that gives comfort, consolation, or relief" (from https://www.dictionary.com/browse/solace) 



  Where do you find solace?  Where does your peace come from?  With the Holiday season coming up fast, what is your solace? 

  Here's a song from Living Color called "Solace of You"   https://youtu.be/vIUke0CCvDs


In the Bible, Kings James Verse, speaks of solace in only one verse, it's 
"Come, let us take our fill of love until the morning: let us solace ourselves with loves."  
 So God wants us to take solace with each other.  


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Sunday, October 21, 2018

Gracious

   To be gracious, what does that mean?  Can it be taught/learned?  Are some just born with it?  We all want others to be gracious towards our self, are we gracious to others?  Is it a level of maturity? 



   This word gracious started me to think about what it meant.   Do I have a complete understanding of what the word means?  I thought I did.  But as I dug around looking at what that word meant, I was surprised.   Made me start to wonder if anyone really knows what the word means.    I think we have a small understanding of what it means.

   As I dug, looking into the the meaning of this word, I found 4 different meanings to it.  I was surprised by this.   First surprise was that the Christian culture has a different meaning to it than the rest of the world.  Second surprise is that the rest of the world had 3 descriptions of the word.   Finding this out makes it clear why there is so much dysfunction in communication with each other in this world.   If everyone has different meanings to what words are, how can anyone understand what the other is saying???!!!   Ok, rant done, back to the post.

   I would like to encourage you to do your own digging of gracious & what it means.  Then see which definition you want to live by & then line yourself up to that.   Also next time you & another person might disagree on something or even start to communicate with each, think about it, are you speaking the same language??

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Sunday, September 30, 2018

Hole

  Let's imagine when we are born we all start at zero or a flat line.   As we grow, learn different things & our parents pour into us life giving lessons that will make us into the adults we are today.  That would be an upper-ward climb on the hill of life & who we are or zero starts becoming positive growing numbers.   

  Sometimes we don't get what we need at different stages in life & that would make a deposit in the negative or make a hole in us.   Life comes with different problems for us to face & that can make more of a hole in us or help us climb the hill of life.  

  If you are taught to give & not receive or to put others first & not to tend to yourself, that could add to the negative or the hole.  If you have relationships that you are life giving & not receiving life back, that feeds the negative/hole.  How can we stop feeding the negative, stop digging the hole?



    Some of us don't realize we are standing in the negative or a hole, because that is where you have been all your life.  Some may see their in the hole but don't know how to get out.  It can feel like waves crashing on us repeatedly  & you can not get  firm footing to stand to move.

  If you are in a hole & want out, contact me,  I can help point you out of the hole.  


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Sunday, September 9, 2018

Journey vs Path

  Journey vs Path....  what is the difference between them?  They do sound like they would be the same thing.  Everyone has been on/going on/ is on a journey.   We all have been on/going on/ is on a path. 


   The difference between both is that one is wide open & the other is more structured.   How do you tell the difference  on which one you are on?  

  Journey is to see if you have the heart to do more than the bare minimum.   Journey is something you are on to see if you will make choices to go further.  A journey is a passage from place to another. 

   A path is marked out already,  a way that is formed by repeated footsteps.    A path has been traveled before by someone or by you, a track constructed for a use.  You still make choices, but you can see a pathway after your choice.    

   We all go down both during our lives.  Where are you now, journey or path?  If you need help with either one, contact me.

 
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Sunday, January 28, 2018

Do you feel lost in the woods when shopping for clothes for yourself?


I needed some more jeans so I went to the store to get some.  I thought very simple task, should have a couple pairs with in an hour or less.  NO! I was wrong!!!  Some of you are thinking, been there.  

After going to a few stores with no luck finding a pair that fit my body comfortably, I was really getting mad & flustered.  I went on the web to search out answers.   This is what I found, I measured my hips & waste & then went to Levi's, Wranglers & a few other brand name companies sites.   From company to company the sizes for my measures went from 14 to 22,  that's a difference between sizes.   I heard before different companies fit differently but this is getting out of hand.   Then we can add that the length comes in different lengths, that is not a big deal. 

With this new info, I went back to the stores armed with the new info.   I did have better luck shopping.  I did get some jeans, jeans that fit comfortably & looked good on me.   When I was trying on the different types & sizes of jeans, I found this out too!!  Not all same name brand sizes fit the same.   I had the same size from the same company, but they changed the size fitting with in themselves.   Very confusing right!!!   Let me try to clear up the confusion,  I gabbed 3 pairs of size 14 from the same name brand,  2 pair I had not problem putting on, one pair I could not even get the top of the waste line button closer to meet.  It was a good 2 inches away!!!   This confirms it, nothing wrong or odd about my body.   It is the companies that are making the clothes for us women.

Women have enough to deal with in our lives, we really don't need to become a master of this puzzling game of clothes.  Clothes shopping should be fun & relaxing!!!  To all the women out there trying to find the right fitting jeans or any form of clothes, you are not alone!!  It's not you but the clothes companies not being consistent.  

 
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Sunday, January 21, 2018

True You


The true you.........do you even know that person or did you get buried  or not even found?  Are you living with what you think you would like to be?  Are you just a shell & are empty on the inside? Do you lack confidence to be you?  Were you told not to be who you are? 

Not knowing who we are can leave us with a lack of confidence & a ton of questions & may lead us down the wrong path in life, when all you are trying to do is just fit in somewhere.  

Once you are walking in your true self  & knowing who you are, you will have more self confidence.  Being in-line with your true self can give you a new flow with life.  Even relationships will be different.  Life in general will look & be different.   You may even feel free.   When we are not walking in our true self, it can feel like we are being oppressed, a heavy burden is keeping us locked down.  

I would love to help you find your true self.



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Sunday, January 14, 2018

Music


Music can create feelings/emotions/bring back memories/be a building spot for memories/bring you to worship/give words when you had none.  Music is a very powerful thing.  It can bring to peace or rise you to war.   What does music do for you?

We all have that song or a couple that speaks to us, move us, help us find words, brought us to tears, or help us express how we feel towards one another.  Music can be a powerful tool.

With all the different styles, bands, "old school" vs new, etc., there is something for everyone.  This is not about religious music verse worldly music, or what is better than another.    But let's look at the emotions/feelings/thoughts/words that you are having that is stirred up from the music. What is locked down deep with in us?  Music can be a key to those things.  Don't be scared not everything deep down in us is "bad".

Sometimes ourselves are locked deep down. Are you in touch with yourself, true self? Do you know your true self?  Have you been ever told not to be yourself or let anyone know who you are truly?

If you are not your true self & like to be, I can help.  


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Sunday, December 31, 2017

Communicate


Are you having problem communicating with any one or everyone?  No matter how hard you try it just is not working & is adding to a bigger problem?   The problem could be girl vs boy language or something else.   Do you know how to tell the difference?   How do you fix the problem?

Communication is a skill that can be learned at any age,  not everyone knows of the skills, or they only know part & some do know all of the skills.    No matter where you fit in that, communication can be tricky when trying to communicate with others, whom may be at different levels of communication.   

Do you know how to keep communication going when you & the other person don't see eye to eye on a subject matter, when emotions tend to be high or you don't care for what is being talked about?  How do you keep communication going?

To communicate is to get someone to understand what you are thinking & feeling.  To communicate is not to get them to go a long with whatever you are thinking & feeling, but to understand where you are coming from & they are doing the same with you.    

Remember your opinion/thought/feelings/emotions are all yours & not everyone else.  We can all have our own & still be able to communicate with each other & not have relationship break downs. 
Communication works best when everyone is not over flowing with their emotions.  All of the relationship wiring in your head needs to be up & running.   Our emotions, when over flowing, can get in the way of this.  

If you like to learn about better communication, contact me.



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Sunday, December 3, 2017

Freedom VS Slavery


To start with, here are some Bible verses to think about.
Bible verse on it- 
Freedom: 
1 Corinthians 7:22 (NIV)" For the one who was a slave when called to faith in the Lord is the Lord’s freed person; similarly, the one who was free when called is Christ’s slave."-refers to spiritual & natural freeman.   

Slavery: 
Leviticus 19:20(KJV) 
" And whosoever lieth carnally with a woman, that is a bondmaid, betrothed to an husband, and not at all redeemed, nor freedom given her; she shall be scourged; they shall not be put to death, because she was not free."


Definition of each one- 
Freedom from Merriam-Webster Dictionary: 
1 :the quality or state of being free: such as  
a :the absence of necessity, coercion, or constraint in choice or action  
b :liberation from slavery or restraint or from the power of another :independence  
c :the quality or state of being exempt or released usually from something onerous  
  • freedom from care 
d :ease, facility  
  • spoke the language with freedom 
e :the quality of being frank, open, or outspoken  
  • answered with freedom 
f :improper familiarity  
g :boldness of conception or execution  
h :unrestricted use 
2 a :a political right  


Slavery from Merriam-Webster Dictionary: 
1 :drudgery, toil  
2 :submission to a dominating influence  
3 a :the state of a person who is a chattel of another  
b :the practice of slaveholding  


Now ask yourself which one do you live by? Are you living like a slave or walking in freedom? 


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Sunday, November 12, 2017

Human Trafficking


Human Trafficking is a very heavy topic to talk about.  Some may not want to talk about it & some even deny it is happening around where they live.  Sad to say it is all around us.  Yes, even in the United States, it's just not another country far way or what horror films are made of.  

My family & church family have been praying & trying to bring this darkness into light.  I'll be sharing a lot of links to information either about it or where you can go for help if you are in it or know someone who is involved it will be later in this blog post.  

There is hope in this dark problem.  There is help.  We all can make a difference.   It's not just about the victims who are locked into this.  But the people who hold the victims prisoners & the people who buy the victims.  We can pray for them all.  There is help for them all.   I know it is hard to not want death to those who imprison the victims & for those who buy the victims.  I'm not saying they get off Scott Free.   But I'm saying let's get to the root of the problem.

Getting to the root of the problem will help end this.  How do we view life & lives?!  How do we value each other?  It's just a start.  

Here's a link to Focus on the Family. They have some bible verses that talk about human trafficking.




Here are the links on Human Trafficking, some are info on it & some are help links.


Description of what it is:


Exodus Cry info:


Help Links:






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Sunday, November 5, 2017

Thanksgiving


This post is short one, but it gives lots to think about. 


Thanksgiving is not celebrate around the world.  That was news to the kids.  With the info why, they got it.  It is an American "holiday".   It started them to think deeper on what would be different if the events of separation  from Great Britain did not happen. 


Freedom of religion would not be for starters & the Fourth of July would not even be on the calendar.   Thanksgiving dinner not happening either.  So how would your life be different?  What impact would it have on your life?   Does it make your list to be thankful for even longer?  Did ours.    Yes, we are grateful for all that we have & all who are in our lives.  But the stuff like freedom of religion, freedom from a lot of things & the rights we have as a free country, you can't touch the gratitude we have for it all. 


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Sunday, October 15, 2017

Habakkuk


Have you ever had questions that no one seems to know the answers? Or only to find more questions instead of answers?  That can lead us to feel frustration, that can cause destruction on the inside of us. Which will cause us to start doubting our beliefs & our way of thinking. Some of us will choose to move forward pass our doubt, some will become cynical & harden hearts, but there are some who will pick to dig deeper for answers. 

Habakkuk is one who picked to go deeper for answers. He was troubled with what was going on around him & took it to God for the deeper answer.  Habakkuk went to God for God's answer & waited for the answer. How long did Habakkuk wait for the answer, I do not know.  I do know he waited till he got one. 

When Habakkuk received God's answer, he then prayed.  He didn't just run off, back to his business. He prayed.  Habakkuk Chapter 3 is his prayer,
Habakkuk’s Prayer
" Lord, I have heard of your fame; I stand in awe of your deeds, Lord. Repeat them in our day, in our time make them known; in wrath remember mercy. God came from Teman, the Holy One from Mount Paran. His glory covered the heavens and his praise filled the earth.  His splendor was like the sunrise; rays flashed from his hand, where his power was hidden.  Plague went before him; pestilence followed his steps.  He stood, and shook the earth; he looked, and made the nations tremble.
The ancient mountains crumbled and the age-old hills collapsed—  but he marches on forever.  I saw the tents of Cushan in distress, the dwellings of Midian in anguish. Were you angry with the rivers, Lord? Was your wrath against the streams? Did you rage against the sea when you rode your horses and your chariots to victory?  You uncovered your bow, you called for many arrows. You split the earth with rivers;  the mountains saw you and writhed. Torrents of water swept by; the deep roared and lifted its waves on high. Sun and moon stood still in the heavens at the glint of your flying arrows, at the lightning of your flashing spear.  In wrath you strode through the earth  and in anger you threshed the nations. You came out to deliver your people,  to save your anointed one.
You crushed the leader of the land of wickedness,  you stripped him from head to foot.  With his own spear you pierced his head when his warriors stormed out to scatter us, gloating as though about to devour  the wretched who were in hiding.  You trampled the sea with your horses, churning the great waters. I heard and my heart pounded,  my lips quivered at the sound; decay crept into my bones, and my legs trembled. Yet I will wait patiently for the day of calamity to come on the nation invading us.
 Though the fig tree does not bud and there are no grapes on the vines, though the olive crop fails  and the fields produce no food, though there are no sheep in the pen and no cattle in the stalls,  yet I will rejoice in the Lord,  I will be joyful in God my Savior.   The Sovereign Lord is my strength; he makes my feet like the feet of a deer, he enables me to tread on the heights."

In verse 19,"The Sovereign Lord is my strength;  he makes my feet like the feet of a deer, he enables me to tread on the heights." God is his strength, God gave him surefooted confidence through his troubles.  God will do the same for us.  It's not us with our own doing. Habakkuk did not get answers from himself. But he went to God & waited for them. Habakkuk trusted what God told him.   


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Sunday, August 27, 2017

If a person is not strong in their own strength, how can they grow in their weakness?


Not looking to start a blame game of who did what or didn't do for you.   Let's just get to the facts.  If a person is not confident in what their strengths are , how are they to grow in their weaker area's?  If a person is weak in their strengths are, it would make sense to help them grow in the strengths before helping them grow in the weak area's.  Our strengths can help us in are weakest moments.  

If you are trying  to help someone in life with their weakness & they are hitting a wall & no fruit is to be seen, do some digging in their strengths  where there is lack.   Start by building their strengths up. They may need help finding their strengths. Dig deep, don't just go for the sallow strength, easy pickings will not make for a good foundation.  Find the strengths God put in there. Those will be more fruit giving, not just for that person but for anyone who comes into that persons life.

Look into their passions, dreams, goals, what comes to them easy in life. Theses are the areas you want to look into for the strengths. Also look at what might be blocking them from any of those just listed, that could be what is blocking growth.  

Remember you are dealing with a person,  not a machine.  Take time, be gentle & loving. This person is a gift from God. Their deep beauty needs help unpacking, so the beauty can shine!!!    


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