Hope, do you have it? Part 2

After looking into Joy, I was lead to look into Hope.  We use the word hope a lot.  But do we really know what it means or use it correctly?  

 Merriam Webster Dictionary describes it-

intransitive verb- 1 : to cherish a desire with anticipation : to want something to happen or be true hopes for a promotion hoping for the best I hope so.

 transitive verb- 1 : to desire with expectation of obtainment or fulfillment I hope she remembers. hopes to be invited 2 : to expect with confidence : trust Your mother is doing well, I hope. 

 Definition of hope 1 archaic : trust, reliance 2 a : desire accompanied by expectation of or belief in fulfillment came in hopes of seeing you; also : expectation of fulfillment or success no hope of a cure when they were young and full of hope b : someone or something on which hopes are centered our only hope for victory c : something desired or hoped (see 1hope) for great hopes for the coming year

Hope  the expectation of future good.   Hope is tied with trust, confidence, anticipation.   I have found hope in the feeling of security, safety,  a place of refuge & faith.  When we have hope in something that is a strong foundation we feel very confident.   But what if we have hope in something that is not of a strong foundation?  False hope is dangerous.   How do we know what we have hope in is a solid foundation?  

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Joy, how do we know we have it?

Were does your joy come from?  Is it created by others, stuff or self?   Did you know there is not a right type of joy?    Did you know there is different types/levels of joy?

Joy is a great feeling of happiness, I found this definition from the Merriam Webster Dictionary.   Joy is a small word but it is loaded!  Joy is tied in with gladness.  So it is an emotion.
 
I found other more information on joy.  Joy can be described as Everlasting- Isaiah 51:11; Great- Acts 8:8; Full- 1 John 1:4; Abundant- 2 Corinthians 8:2; Unspeakable- 1 Peter 1:8.   Which one do you have?   Do you have more than one?

 The different kinds of Joy are just as interesting.   Joy can be different kinds, like Foolish- Proverbs 15:21; Temporary- Matthew 13:20; Motherly-Psalms 113:9; Figurative-Isaiah 52:9; Future- Matthew 25:21,23.   What type do you have?

You are starting to see how loaded this small little word Joy is!!  Hang on there is more!!!!!
What causes Joy?   Victory- 1 Samuel 18:6; Birth (Christ's Birth)-Luke 2:10,11; Christ's resurrection-Matthew 28:7,8; Sinner's repentance-Luke 15:5,10; Miracles- Acts 8;7,8; Forgiveness-Psalms 51:8,12; God's Word- Jeremiah 15:16; Spiritual Discovery-Matthew 13:44; True Faith- 1 Peter 1:4:13.  

There is a "wrong" side of Joy.  If you are receiving joy from the downfall of ones enemy- Proverbs 24:17;  Wickedness- Hosea 7:3. When you enter in to joy this way your foundation for is lacking & weak.  It will not last.

Gladness/ cheerfulness is caused by forgiveness- Psalms 51:8 & Salvation- Isaiah 5:3,11: John 8:56; Restoration of Hope-John 20:20;  blessings- Acts 14:17; Christ's coming- 1 Peter 4:13.

Joy is mixed with hope, gladness & cheerfulness.  Joy has emotions wrapped up with it.  Can you recall having these emotions?    



Trust is wrapped up with Joy.  It is part of faith.  Some people of a big problem with a lack of trust/faith.  How do you turn that around?

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Overwhelmed Part 2

What do you do when you feel overwhelmed?   Some shut down, yell, run away from it all, eat, don't eat, drugs or drink.   When we are feeling overwhelmed our relational skills shut down.  When the relational skills shut down, we no longer can communicate with others positively.   It can leave us feeling alone, angry, depressed & anxious. 

How do we keep from getting overwhelmed?  We can find out what the triggers are.  Depending on the triggers, will depend on the next step.  No matter what a plan on how to deal with feeling overwhelmed needs to be thought of & how it can be put in to action.  If we have a person we can trust it is helpful.   

Reaching out when we are overwhelmed may not feel like the easiest thing to do.   Our brain can feed us messages of gloom & doom that can be hard to over ride to move forward.  But once we take the first step to reach out, it can be freeing.  

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Edge Of The Storm Part 2

One of my first post was called Edge of the Storm.   Psalms 23 speaks about that.  The first verse speaks of "I shall not be in want."  Want what does that word mean...... I went digging. 

Want in Psalms 23:1 refers to lack, to fail, have need.  If we are on the "Edge Of A Storm" we are faced with trusting God to have us covered, our needs are provide for or are we going to meet our own needs & do it all our self.   Trust is not easy thing to have when your world is about to be turned upside down & may not look the same after the storm. 

Trust is a big issue for some.  After different events in life it can be very hard to trust this God that you can not call or text on the phone.  To build trust can be a leap of faith at times.   I'm here to say ever time I trusted God, God was there for me.  I was not forsaken.   I was not looked over or passed by.  God was there for me.  God covered my needs. 

Many of us don't know the difference between a need & a want.  Some get them reversed.    Take time to review your needs/wants.  Is there any needs on your list that you feel are not taken care of?  Are you willing to trust God with your needs?  

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TBI Part 3

Part 3 of TBI.   TBI is an on going process.   So far I do see an end to this. This is not like a bone break.  Our life is forever changed.  Not to sound doom & groom.  It's just the facts. 

Here's a little update on our lives.    In January we were rear ended.  We all had whiplash from it & some damage to the car.   We could have taken the position of anger & hate towards the lady that ran into to us, mad that another bad thing happened when we are already at the bottom of what we can handle or deal with.  Not us, let me tell ya what we did.

I actually gave the lady not one but two hugs before parting our ways.  She was just as rattled as we were.  We are choosing not to be man & angry full of hate.    Guess what, none of us woke up & had that on the agenda.   But it's how we react in the moment that sets the tone of the situation.  

We did all the info swap & the police came etc.   We are dealing with the insurance companies, car repairs & all the paperwork.   Yes, its never fun but its what needs to be done.

Now, back to the whiplash....... with the injuries I received,  it has been able to help my husband with the TBI describe what he is feeling & going through.  With the TBI his ability to process information has been broken.   The silver lining in a rough time?!  Could very will be.    I get to experience some of what life is like for him.   In that crazy little nut shell, we hope this all will be able to make some form of progress in information about TBI.   Cause the folks with the TBI have problems getting out what they are feeling emotionally & physically. 

When your processing part in your brain stops working or works so slow stuff is unable to come out, its a prison.  My processing works great.   It's so freeing to a person to be able to speak about what they are feeling emotionally or physically.  Having language match up with it, is a freedom from the prison.  

We are all recovering slowly from the whiplash.  With help from Massage Therapy & Physical Therapy the muscles will unlock & heal.  The car is repaired, life will go on.   It may not go as we thought or as fast as we thought, but it will go on.    

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Hope

                                               

Here' s a poem that was shared with me.    As  you read it, I hope  you find the peace you are looking for, the wind under you wings & the comfort for you that there is a reason for everything, even if you can not see it.                                                                  


My life is but a weaving, between my God and me,
I do not choose the colors, He worketh steadily.
Ofttimes he weaveth sorrow, and I in foolish pride
Forget He sees the upper, and I the underside.
Not till the loom is silent, and the shuttles cease to fly,
Will God unroll the canvas, and explain the reasons why
The dark threads are as needful in the skillful weaver's hand
As threads of gold and silver in the pattern He has planned.

Anonymous


To many times we ask & wonder why I'm having to deal with or go through this.   Try looking at the good that is coming out of the "dark threads".   See what is being made.   We may need help looking pass the "dark threads".   Reaching out to someone who is not in the middle of it can help with that. 

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Female Hormones, Sorry Guys Not For You Part One

 Being a female is not always easy.  They (men) say we are the better looking one of our species.
God created us with a design of beauty.   Ok, lets stop right there.........  All that sounds great.   But when our hormones are hitting highs & lows like a roller coaster & you are weeping one moment & want to kill everyone the next & the inside of you feels like a tornado, where's all this beauty?!!!

I truly understand that all of it.   When we are in the hormone storm its hard to live or even feel beautiful. Some of us women never leave the storm, it is on going.  Hormones play a large part in our lives.   Life seemed so much easier & peaceful before the first period.   Every women remembers when the first period hit.

Our mother passed wisdom & knowledge on to us about the process of which our bodies changes & what to do.   I got the 101 on what the physical part of it.   But not so much in the emotional part.  I must say, I was a hot mess.  My emotions where all over the place & I did not know which way was up, but I still had to go to school, be a part of family & act nicely.   It was like walking in a mind field.   I'm sure I was no peach to live with either.

My mom kept me well stocked on chocolate. That seemed to help me for a bit.   But how much chocolate can one honestly eat?!!  I ate a lot.   Don't worry,  I did not get fat, I  also had anorexia.  I'm sure that did not help with the hormones, hunger never does.   


  How do we live & feel beautiful in the storm of it?

Start following the moods during the month, how we feel during the month, slept & are craving.  That is just the start.   There are many tools out there to help with that, like on smart phones there are different apps.   Find one that works & makes sense to you.   Track how long your periods are, what are the different changes you nice with your body.   The app will help you track & make sense of all it.   Once you have a pattern, there are steps you can do to help yourself through the storm.

I noticed there is about a week in my cycle that I have energy to do everything & anything.  That is a great week to do stuff.   Then there are the other weeks I need to tend to myself.  Make sure rest, water healthy food & not over scheduling myself for stuff I do not have energy for.

It's the finding the right balance in your cycle to help with the storm.   Tending to yourself in the week of your cycle is important.   The rest of the time prepping for the week is helpful.  Talking with other close females about this & how you feel is helpful.

What is your plan to have beauty in your storm of hormones?

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