Betrayal

Have you been betrayed?

Betrayal can level deep hurts & open doors for you to not trust.  
After someone has betrayed you, how do you deal with it?  Do you never talk to the person, confront them for what was done & seek justice for what was done?   Or do you go as far as seek revenge? 

I hope you don't seek revenge.  That can add more to the problem. How do you move pass the hurt, anger, bitterness & unforgiveness?  
We need to look at are we happy in the spot we are & do we want to be in a different spot.  Some say time can heal the hurt.  Not in all cases.  Time can make it grow & consume us.  

How can we move forward from feeling the hurt, anger, bitterness & unforgiveness?   Facing the pain is the first step.  It is ok to feel our emotions.   We may not want to act on our emotions that is where we can get into trouble if we do.  

Do you know the names of the emotions you are feeling?   If we don't that can be overwhelming.  Then the brain shuts down & we are unable to move forward.  Once we label our emotions, our brain is able to make connections to help us move forward.   

How can we label the emotions if we don't know what they are?  Very easy, we talk with a person who can be trusted who is safe & gentle.   Describing to the person what you are feeling, they can help give language for it.  

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Facing Pain

Facing your past hurts or choices is never easy.   Sometimes it is to heavy & hard to face by yourself.    But trusting someone else to see the hurts & past choices may be to much for you to deal with.  It takes a lot to let someone in to help hold your hand to face pain.  Only you can let someone in to your walls to help you carry the burdens.

When letting people in to the walls it feels like it is to much to carry & do.  But once you take the first steps, some of the pressure is released.  Each step you take it is easier to breath.   

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Stuck & Not Sure How To Move Forward

Stuck & Not Sure How To Move Forward?

Feel like all you do is spin your wheels & no matter what you do, your still in the same spot?!
There are patterns in our thinking, actions & life that keeps us stuck.  Or there are principles in life we are not following so we are stuck.  Principles can be the grease for the forward motion

First make a list of areas where there is no forward motion.   What have you tried to get motion?  Does anyone else in the family have same problem?

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Are You Mad At God?

Are you mad at God?

That's a loaded question.   If your Christian do you dare say yes out loud if you are??!!   If you are mad at God, He knows already. 

There is no shame or guilt to be had, if you are.    Let's look at the why are you mad at God.   That is where you may want to jot the things down on paper so you can keep track.

You can talk with God about each one.   You might want to think about asking for forgiveness for each thing you wrote down.   

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