We will be looking at sowing & reaping. To sow is to put in & to reap is was you get from after you have sown. Very simple principle that can do great things. You are doing the sowing & the reaping, not lets see what I can get my hubby to do different. Ladies, leave the poor guy a lone. He's got guy stuff to do.
Look at what you want to have done different, is it more date nights with your hubby, more quality time with him at home, more communication with him or do you feel your not on the same page as him & want to change that? Whatever your goal is, let's look at what you are doing now that is not getting the results that you want & stop doing them. Let's look on how you can sow better things to reap better fruit. When we are applying the sowing & reaping principle, do not look for the fast change. Some times it might take a season or so to get the fruit. Have patience with yourself & what you are doing.
Let's look at ourselves some more. Are you taking care of you? Eating healthy, exercises, getting out with the lady friends, building into the the family relationships outside of you & him & each other's friends? Remember the times of dating each other & talking about it!! Drop old issues, holding on to past pain & rough times kills the future joy. How many nice loving words have you said towards him in a day? Holding hands much? Are you showing him respect? Have you said thank you to him today? Stop picking out ever little thing he does that is making you crazy!! Doing that is killing your relationship. You would not like it if the shoe was on the other foot.
If you would like more help with this, please contact me. Blessings on your path for a stronger, healthier marriage!!
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