Do you feel lost in the woods when shopping for clothes for yourself?

I needed some more jeans so I went to the store to get some.  I thought very simple task, should have a couple pairs with in an hour or less.  NO! I was wrong!!!  Some of you are thinking, been there.  

After going to a few stores with no luck finding a pair that fit my body comfortably, I was really getting mad & flustered.  I went on the web to search out answers.   This is what I found, I measured my hips & waste & then went to Levi's, Wranglers & a few other brand name companies sites.   From company to company the sizes for my measures went from 14 to 22,  that's a difference between sizes.   I heard before different companies fit differently but this is getting out of hand.   Then we can add that the length comes in different lengths, that is not a big deal. 

With this new info, I went back to the stores armed with the new info.   I did have better luck shopping.  I did get some jeans, jeans that fit comfortably & looked good on me.   When I was trying on the different types & sizes of jeans, I found this out too!!  Not all same name brand sizes fit the same.   I had the same size from the same company, but they changed the size fitting with in themselves.   Very confusing right!!!   Let me try to clear up the confusion,  I gabbed 3 pairs of size 14 from the same name brand,  2 pair I had not problem putting on, one pair I could not even get the top of the waste line button closer to meet.  It was a good 2 inches away!!!   This confirms it, nothing wrong or odd about my body.   It is the companies that are making the clothes for us women.

Women have enough to deal with in our lives, we really don't need to become a master of this puzzling game of clothes.  Clothes shopping should be fun & relaxing!!!  To all the women out there trying to find the right fitting jeans or any form of clothes, you are not alone!!  It's not you but the clothes companies not being consistent.  

 

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True You

The true you.........do you even know that person or did you get buried  or not even found?  Are you living with what you think you would like to be?  Are you just a shell & are empty on the inside? Do you lack confidence to be you?  Were you told not to be who you are? 

Not knowing who we are can leave us with a lack of confidence & a ton of questions & may lead us down the wrong path in life, when all you are trying to do is just fit in somewhere.  

Once you are walking in your true self  & knowing who you are, you will have more self confidence.  Being in-line with your true self can give you a new flow with life.  Even relationships will be different.  Life in general will look & be different.   You may even feel free.   When we are not walking in our true self, it can feel like we are being oppressed, a heavy burden is keeping us locked down.  

I would love to help you find your true self.

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Music

Music can create feelings/emotions/bring back memories/be a building spot for memories/bring you to worship/give words when you had none.  Music is a very powerful thing.  It can bring to peace or rise you to war.   What does music do for you?

We all have that song or a couple that speaks to us, move us, help us find words, brought us to tears, or help us express how we feel towards one another.  Music can be a powerful tool.

With all the different styles, bands, "old school" vs new, etc., there is something for everyone.  This is not about religious music verse worldly music, or what is better than another.    But let's look at the emotions/feelings/thoughts/words that you are having that is stirred up from the music. What is locked down deep with in us?  Music can be a key to those things.  Don't be scared not everything deep down in us is "bad".

Sometimes ourselves are locked deep down. Are you in touch with yourself, true self? Do you know your true self?  Have you been ever told not to be yourself or let anyone know who you are truly?

If you are not your true self & like to be, I can help.  

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Pride & Arrogance

This post goes a long with "High Horse" post.   It's about how we present ourselves around other people.   Do you get along with others or do you have conflicts with others, a lot?   This might be because of pride/arrogance/high horse attitude we carry.   No body likes to be around a person that carries those personality traits.  

Pride is linked to our ego. It is satisfaction of our own abilities & possessions.  Pride is an unhealthy view of our own gifts & abilities.  It rejects criticism.   Please don't get confused by thinking I'm saying it is unhealthy to have self confidence.  Self confidence is very healthy.  There is a fine line between self confidence & pride.  We must be careful not to cross that fine line.  Self confidence is a healthy view of one's own gifts & abilities, it can take criticism & uses it to better themselves.  

Arrogance is an attitude of superiority manifested in an overbearing manner or presumptuous claims or assumptions.   Arrogance is undesirable traits as being disagreeable, aggressive,  having low or brittle self-esteem & prone to shame.   Arrogance tries to protect your own ego, self -worth, hide insecurities, lack of confidence & fear of rejection.  It is also often associated with narcissistic personality disorder.  People with this disorder have intense, unstable emotions & a distorted self-image.   The opposite of arrogance is humility.  Humility is being free from pride/arrogance/high horse.  Don't be a door mat,  humility with self-confidence is the right balance.  

With the information given here, you may be able to relate, a pattern might be starting to show here.  Wounds can be healed.   Skills can be learned to grow in areas that we struggle in.   Sometimes we need help from other people to grow or receive healing in areas.  

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